Seems like a lot of people are tying the knot early these days. Just received a news that one of my not so close friend is getting married in a few months time. Hmm sometimes I really wonder why are these people so excited about getting married early nowadays. I mean this guy is still serving his army daze and not even earning money and he is going to settle down like this? although his family are quite well to do, but I think if someone wants to get married he should at least be having a job and earning some money. Plus he is only 23 and how long have he known this gal? Has he been experiencing the outside world? I think this is very important as I felt that after working for almost 2 years, I experience and learn a lot of things and sometimes these experiences really change my perception of things and changed my childish behavior and thinking. I think this is why the divorce rate of young couples is so high. So I hope those of my friends who have yet to start working and is still studying think twice before you decide to throw me an invitation card. Of course if you are really prepare for marriage I will congratulate you and send you my blessings.

Yesturday, I met up with j q and k for dinner, we were discussing about the mah jong session we had the day before. Then they were planning to go for another round that night. But I decided not to join them. So they managed to find two replacements which is b and h. Then q was saying if I am playing we should gang up and make b lose the game. but as usual j was against it, of course I know the reason why he was against it, because b is his good friend. I mean no one would want to gang up and cheat money out of his good friend right? But I know J also understands why we would want to do this. It's because q, k and me really can't stand looking at the shit face of b. He always show those black face in front of everyone and it's more obvious when he is losing a game or something. Actually I am really neutral to this b, I don't really hate him but also not like him lar. Just that I can't stand the face that's all and dun really mind joining force with q. Then j ask me if they all were to join force and cheat je(my friend) money, how would I feel? But the thing is, I don't think anyone would do that because they have no reason to do it. I mean je doesn't make people dulan about him or doesn't show black face mah.

Btw I think J loves to make too much assumption base to his own analysing. He always has his own impression on someone(as in everyone he meets) and thinks that the person is what kind of person even if he only met the person up once or a few times. But I think to really know a person, you have to be his good friend to know him or you can find out about him from his good friend. Because only someone's good friend will know that person well enough and perhaps knows more than the person himself. Ok maybe that's why you know b better than us and you know that he has changed over the past few years right? and I know that it's better to make one more friend rather than to add one more person to your enemy list. But I think I will not ever make friends with b not because I don't like him. Just that I guess we both belongs to different world and won't click or share any common topic. Maybe just hi and bye friend.

After dinner I met up with eddy for some pool and went to mac for a drink and also to try out the new nuggets sauce. We went to jalan kayu and order a piece of prata each( already quite full le) as it was still early and we didn't want to go home cos nothing to do. We chat about jobs, gals and money(sometimes I wished that je would be more open hor and chat with us about himself rather than to keep everything to himself. not good for health leh). Before we knew, it was already 4 plus am in the morning.

Last thing I want to say is I would like to congratulate my good friend/buddy SS to have found someone to love and care for. Really happy for you leh, though you didn't tell me about it but nvm lar. Tell me more about it next time we meet lor. I think someone must be thinking that I am jealous or think that I am a loser or something hor? or hey we have already found a partner liao so when is your turn. But sorry to disappoint you hor, though I felt a bit dishearten sometimes, I don't really crave to be with someone like I was before. Dunno leh maybe I am just used to being by myself after all these years. And if I were to find someone, I want to make sure that the person is someone I really like or at least have some interest in before I date. But I still feel the need to get myself attach if not I think even by age 30 I won't be married. A few years ago I set a target of getting married at 26, which I think is quite an ideal age, not too young or too old but I know I won't fufill this hope le because even if I get attach now I think 2 years is too brief for a relationship to consider marriage. Few years ago I read an article about the ideal number of relationship you have before you find a perfect someone for you. It is the average of 12th relationship to have an ideal partner. This is just a research done by others hor so might not apply to everyone. I know there are also people who get married and live happily ever after with their first galfriends or boyfriends. I think it's good to get attached lar, it will also give you the will to work harder and a sense of direction. Like now, I am feeling lazy and don't really know where I am heading to...

Wah is this the longest post I wrote? Spent 1 hr plus to write hor and sometimes accidentally deleted the whole paragraph and have to re-type damm...